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		<title>Braisheet &#8212; When You Thought I Wasn&#8217;t Looking</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This week’s Torah reading is from the beginning of the Torah &#8212; The Book of Genesis. On Simchat Torah, just celebrated on Monday evening, we concluded the final paragraphs of the Book of Deuteronomy which noted the death of Moses on the border of the Land of Israel. Our Torah reading concludes at that point. [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week’s Torah reading is from the beginning of the Torah &#8212; The Book of Genesis. On Simchat Torah, just celebrated on Monday evening, we concluded the final paragraphs of the Book of Deuteronomy which noted the death of Moses on the border of the Land of Israel. Our Torah reading concludes at that point.  Curiously, we never get to read about the conquest of the Land in the Torah.  We read about this in the Book of Joshua, which is part of the section of scriptures known as The Prophets. Instead of moving forward we wind backward, both figuratively and literally. We roll the Torah scroll back to the Story of Creation, and begin our yearly Torah cycle again.<br />
“In the beginning, G-d created the heavens and the earth”. In some ways it is fascinating that we begin the Torah in the beginning! Let me explain. If the Torah is meant to teach us how we ought to live our lives, why does it begin with the creation of the universe? If the Torah is primarily designed to teach us the proper way to live, why does the Torah not begin with LAWS? The Torah could simply begin with the commandment to be fruitful and multiply, then follow up with the commandment to circumcise our sons. It could move on to the commandment to observe the Sabbath. Then it could tell us to observe our Festivals. It could lay out the laws of keeping kosher. It could tell us to love our neighbor as ourselves. It could command us to give charity the poor, and to protect the stranger, the widow and the orphan. Of course, the Torah does tell us all of these but as we know, in addition the Torah tells us much more.</p>
<p>In other words, I dare say, perhaps G-d could have used a good editor when G-d wrote the Torah. Perhaps G-d should not have been so convinced of His own perfection, and let an angel read what He wrote before publication. I am not the only one to think this. The very first comment in the Torah by the great commentator Rashi poses this very question. Of what use is the entire book of Genesis, which is basically a book of stories about our ancestors, in helping us to lead our lives? Why didn’t G-d just start with the commandments?</p>
<p>One answer is that we can learn a great deal from examining the lives of the patriarchs and matriarchs about how we should conduct our own lives. From reading about the life of Abraham we learn about what a life of righteousness and justice looks like. We can see how a man with unshakable faith in the One G-d lives out his life in that faith. From looking at the life of Rivka we can learn about how a strong woman can shape the destiny of her family and the Jewish people. From the life of Jacob we can see someone who struggles with his own inner demons and overcomes them. From the story of Joseph we learn about how repentance and forgiveness play themselves out in the life of an individual and a family.  We learn best not by following a set of rules laid down to us by an authority. We learn best by modeling ourselves after the behavior of those who live out those rules in their own lives. By studying their lives, we come to love these holy ancestors and want to follow their example.</p>
<p>A few weeks ago, footage was released containing lewd remarks about women made by one of our Presidential candidates back in 2005. Much of the condemnation by public figures that followed these remarks noted the status of the speaker as a father of daughters. For example, Mitch McConnell identified himself as “the father of three daughters” in condemning the remarks. John McCain mentioned his daughters. Mitt Romney was outraged on behalf of his mother, wife and daughter. Texas senator John Cornyn, North Carolina senator Thom Tillis, New Jersey House representative Scott Garrett, and Florida representative Carlos Curbelo all condemned the lewd comments by invoking their status as a “father of daughters”.</p>
<p>I wondered about the fathers of sons! One columnist who addressed this issue wrote that men would not have to worry so much about defending the honor of their daughters if more men taught their sons to respect women! He advised men to sit down and talk to their sons about proper behavior toward women in light of the candidate’s comments. I think men have to do that, and much more! More than talking to our sons, we need to model for our sons the proper way to treat women and talk about women. Our children, who area astute observers, notice what we do. Our children are carefully watching how we behave. Just as the Torah gives us role models to emulate, to show us how to live our lives, we need to live out our values in our lives in order to teach our children the proper way to live. We cannot simply lay down the laws and expect them to be followed – especially when our children can see that our behavior is at odds with our words.</p>
<p>We have just concluded the Festival of Sukkot. The Torah commands us in Leviticus 23: “You shall sit in sukkos … so that your children will know”.  The Chofetz Chaim derives a lesson from this verse about Jewish education that is applicable to all our efforts to educate our children. He notes that the Torah first tells a parent to sit in a sukkah. Only then does it say, “so that your children will know”. The lesson – Only by sitting in the sukkah ourselves will we be able to teach our children. If we fail to sit in the sukkah first, then all attempts to teach our children will be wasted.</p>
<p>Our children learn primarily by example. Our children are watching us, for better or worse. We may think they are not looking, but they are soaking up everything we do. I leave you with this poem by an unknown author:</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I wanted to paint another one.</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you feed a stray cat, and I thought it was good to be kind to animals.</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you make my favorite cake just for me, and I knew that little things are special things.</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I heard you say a prayer, and I believed there is a God I could always talk to.</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I felt you kiss me good night, and I felt loved.</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw tears come from your eyes, and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it’s all right to cry.</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw that you cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be.</p>
<p>When you thought I wasn’t looking, I looked…and wanted to say thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn’t looking.</p>
<p>Shabbat Shalom</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.napershalom.org/sermon/braisheet-when-you-thought-i-wasnt-looking/">Braisheet &#8212; When You Thought I Wasn&#8217;t Looking</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.napershalom.org">Congregation Beth Shalom</a>.</p>
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		<title>Rosh Hashanah Day 5777 : A Fresh Start</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2016 05:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>One of the themes of Rosh Hashanah is birth and renewal. We proclaim on this day, Hayom Harat Olam, “Today is the Birthday of the World”. Our tradition holds that the world was created 5777 years ago. Of course, nothing in Judaism is without controversy. In fact there is a debate in the Talmud between [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the themes of Rosh Hashanah is birth and renewal. We proclaim on this day, Hayom Harat Olam, “Today is the Birthday of the World”. Our tradition holds that the world was created 5777 years ago. Of course, nothing in Judaism is without controversy. In fact there is a debate in the Talmud between two sages as to precisely when the world was created. According to Rabbi Eliezer, the world was created in the fall, in the month of Tishre. According to Rabbi Yehoshua, the world was created in the spring, in the month of Nisan! Each sage cites the exact same biblical verse to support his claim, yet they each interpret it differently. Their reasoning is&#8230;.. Talmudic, which means mysterious, long, and complex &#8212; I will therefor spare you the details.</p>
<p>Since the matter was not settled in the Talmud, later Rabbis took up the argument. The medieval Rabbi Avraham Ibn Ezra, of Navarro, Spain, supports the position of Rabbi Eliezer, that the world was created on Rosh Hashanah, in Tishre, in the fall. As proof, Ibn Ezra notes that the Torah commands us to sound the Shofar on Yom Kippur to mark the beginning of the Jubilee year, the year in which all slaves are freed, all debts forgiven, and all land returned to its original owners. It makes sense, he reasons, that the beginning of Jubilee Year would start very close to the beginning of the true New Year, Rosh Hashanah. Not so fast, say other Rabbis, who bring evidence that the world was in fact created in the spring, according to the position of Rabbi Yohoshua. Every 28 years, they point out, we recite the birchat hachama. This is a blessing recited when the sun returns to the same position in the heavens that it was in when it was created on the fourth day. Some of us may recall gathering together in the synagogue courtyard on April 8, 2009 to recite this blessing. It was on a Wednesday morning, the fourth day of the week. This blessing is always recited in the spring, in Nisan. It stands to reason, therefore, that the world itself was created in the spring.</p>
<p>Two well thought out positions, two valid arguments – but we are no further in determining the truth of when the world was created than were the Rabbis in the Talmud. Rabbeinu Tam, a grandson of the illustrious Rashi who lived in twelfth century France, broke the deadlock this way – you guessed it – they’re BOTH RIGHT. According to Rabeinu Tam, G-d thoughtof creating the world in the fall, on the day we celebrate Rosh Hashanah, but G-d did not physically create the world until the spring, in the month of Nissan. Since G-d’s thought is identical to G-d’s action – both positions are right! As the Torah explains in the Book of Numbers:</p>
<p>“God is not man to be capricious/or mortal to change His mind/ would he speak and not act/promise and not fulfill?”</p>
<p>If G-d is not man, then man is not G-d, and following through on our best intentions is precisely the challenge we face on Rosh Hashanah. Every now and then we have an idea or an inspiration, and we expect it to change us, but we don’t doanything about it! We may intend to carry through on it, but we never get around to taking concrete action. We make promises to ourselves, but never fulfill them. We are inspired to change, but can’t motivate ourselves to take the first step. Thus, many worthy thoughts that should be acted upon remain stuck in our heads, and never realized.</p>
<p>In the Book of Deuteronomy, the Israelites are poised to enter the land of Canaan. Moses instructs them on how to establish a just and fair society when they settle the land. Moses tells the People of Israel to “appoint judges and officers at your gates”. On the face of it this means simply that they must set up a judicial branch of government. The sages see something deeper. They note that the Hebrew word for “gates”– shaar – is the same word as for “considerations”, “reckonings”, “thoughts”, “calculations” and “deliberations” in Hebrew. Accordingly, this verse can also be read, “Appoint judges and officers for your personal deliberations, your internal considerations, your calculations for the future.” We should appoint internal “judges” to carefully weigh the consequences of putting our thoughts into action, the effect they will have on us, the impact they will have on our loved ones, the ramifications they will have for our community. After we have given careful thought to our plans and and deemed them to be good for us, we should implement them! This is the point at which many of us falter. Many of us have difficulty bringing our plans to fruition.</p>
<p>Therefore, as the Torah says, we should also appoint internal “officers”, who will insure that our worthy plans are carried out. How many potentially life changing resolutions go unfulfilled because of an absence of will, a failure to follow through? Our metaphorical officers are tasked with the enforcement of our good intentions so that we will actually CHANGE.</p>
<p>Rabbi Kalman Packouz poses five questions to think about while we are here in synagogue or to discuss at our Rosh Hashanah meals:<br />
1. When do I most feel that my life is meaningful?<br />
2. If I could change only one thing about myself, what would that be?<br />
3. If I could change one thing about my spiritual life, what would it be?<br />
4. Are there any ideals I would be willing to die for?<br />
5. If I could live my life over, would I change anything?</p>
<p>Rosh Hashanah is a time of reflection, of hope and of renewal. Rosh Hashanah should wake us up, spark us to look at our lives, inspire in us the belief that it is never too late to grow and to change. In the autumn nature is preparing for her long winter sleep. Along comes the Shofar to warn usnot to do the same. The Shofar cries out to us, “Awake ye sleepers from your slumber; rouse yourselves from your lethargy.”</p>
<p>We cannot allow blind habit and deadening routine to rule our lives. This is why our sages, while ordaining a fixed order and a fixed time for prayer, insist that we must add something new in our prayers. They feared that our prayers would become empty recitations of memorized words. Such prayers have neither the power to reach upward to move Heaven nor inward to touch our deepest selves. A central prayer in our siddur reminds us that G-d renews creation each day. G-d did not wind up the clock of creation in the Beginning and then let it run. G-d is continually involved in the process of creation of the world. In the same way, we too need to be continually involved in the creation of our lives, lest our lives, too, become dull and empty.</p>
<p>Mindless routine is the enemy of spiritual growth and renewal. Much of our day is spent going perfunctorily through set patterns of behaviors – the time we awaken in the morning, what we have for breakfast, the route we take to work, the regularity of our work-a-day lives, our bed-time rituals, the chores we perform week in and week out. Without some modicum of routine we would find it difficult to get much accomplished at all. But to sleepwalk through our spiritual life is to court our spiritual decline, to lose touch with the Divine Source that animates our lives.</p>
<p>The Chasidic Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berdichev notes that the Hebrew word for soul &#8211;“neshamah”&#8211; is related to the Hebrew word for breath &#8212; “neshimah”. He teaches that, with each breath out, it is as if our soul departs from our body. Were it not for the power of G-d to restore our breath each time we exhale, our soul would leave us permanently, and we would die. Just as creation is renewed each day, so, G-d restores our soul at every moment. We are continuously being renewed and reborn.</p>
<p>The story is told of an angry reader once stormed into a newspaper office waving the day’s paper, asking to see the editor of the obituary column. He showed him his name in the obituary listing. “You see,” he said, “I am very much alive. I demand a retraction!” The editor replied, “I never retract a story. But I’ll tell you what I’ll do; I’ll put you in the birth column and give you a fresh start!”</p>
<p>With each breath we take in we are new and are given a fresh start.</p>
<p>At the beginning of this sermon I told you about the debate between Rabbi Eliezer, who thought the world was created in the fall, and Rabbi Yehoshua, who thought that the world was created in the spring. We, of course, follow Rabbi Eliezer, and celebrate the “Creation of the World” in the fall. But is the fall really the season of birth and renewal? The fall brings to mind the term “The Autumn of our Lives”, a saying that denotes that we are past our peak &#8212; that we are winding down that we have more days behind us than we have ahead of us. However many days we may have ahead, it is incumbent upon us to determine, at this time of year, whether we have lived the life that is true to ourselves. If we have not – if we have long considered the need for a change in direction, a course correction, then let us make this year the year that we put our thoughts into action and renew our lives for the better. With that thought in mind, I leave you with a poem written in 1934 by American writer and musician Dale Wimbrow, which I have adapted:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">When you get what you want in your struggle for self<br />
And the world gives you accolades,<br />
Just go to a mirror and look at yourself,<br />
And see what that person says.<br />
For it isn&#8217;t your father or mother or spouse,<br />
Whose judgement upon you must pass;<br />
The person whose verdict counts most in your life<br />
Is the one staring back from the glass.<br />
That’s who you must please, never mind all the rest.<br />
That’s who you live with to the end,<br />
And you&#8217;ve passed the most dangerous, difficult test<br />
If the one in the glass is your friend.<br />
You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years.<br />
And get pats on the back as you pass,<br />
But your final reward will be the heartaches and tears<br />
If you&#8217;ve cheated the one in the glass.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.napershalom.org/sermon/rosh-hashanah-day-5777-a-fresh-start/">Rosh Hashanah Day 5777 : A Fresh Start</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.napershalom.org">Congregation Beth Shalom</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2016 05:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I’d like to begin my sermon this evening by telling you a story. The story takes place in the 1980’s, before the widespread use of personal computers, before smart phones, before ipads and fitbits and all of the technology that we now carry around in our pockets or wear on our wrists. The story begins [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’d like to begin my sermon this evening by telling you a story. The story takes place in the 1980’s, before the widespread use of personal computers, before smart phones, before ipads and fitbits and all of the technology that we now carry around in our pockets or wear on our wrists. The story begins when Shimon gets off the train in Union Station struggling with two heavy suitcases. As he wrestles his suitcases to the platform, a man he doesn’t know, let’s call him Reuven, comes up to him and asks for the time. Shimon pulls a watch out of his pocket, but instead of looking at the time, he speaks to the watch! “Could you tell me what time it is?” Shimon asks. The watch replies, “It’s four o’clock, pm, Central Time”. “Wow, that’s some watch you have there,” says Rueven. “Oh, that’s nothing,” Shimon says. Speaking to the watch again, the he asks, “What time is it in New York?” “Two O’clock pm,” the voice in the watch responds. “And in Barcelona?” “It is eleven O’clock pm in Barcelona,” answers the watch. Munich, Shanghai, Buenos Aires, the watch instantaneously provides the exact time in any city in the world.</p>
<p>“I am so impressed,” says Reuven. “I have never seen a watch that can do that!” “Oh, that’s nothing,” says Shimon. Speaking to the watch again, Shimon says, “Get me the Book of Genesis,” and immediately the story of Adam and Eve scrolls down the face of the watch. “That’s fantastic,” says Rueven. Seeing how engrossed Rueven is in this technological marvel, Shimon continues. “I’m able to carry around every volume of the Talmud in this little watch,” he says. “What would take up shelves upon shelves of space in my Rabbi’s office, I can carry around in the vest pocket of my suit jacket!”</p>
<p>“This is wonderful,” says Rueven, now beside himself with enthusiasm if not a little envy. “Look,” says Shimon, “My daughter recently had her bat mitzvah. Here’s a video of her chanting her Haftorah on Shabbes morning. We were so proud of her. And that appointment book that I’m pretty sure you carry in your briefcase. I have it right here on my watch, at the touch of a button.”</p>
<p>“Where did you get such a watch, I have to have one,” says Rueven. Shimon tells him that it’s not available in any stores. “I’ll give you ten thousand dollars for that watch,” Reuven says to Shimon. “Oh, I can’t sell it to you for ten thousand dollars,” says Shimon. “I’ll give you forty thousand dollars for that watch,” says Rueven. “I’m sorry, it’s not for sale,” says Shimon. But Rueven detects a hint of indecision in Shimon’s voice. “I will give you sixty thousand dollars for that watch,” Rueven proclaims, and he pulls out his check book and starts writing a check. Shimon thinks, well, sixty thousand dollars is a lot of money, and I can always make another watch for myself, so Shimon agrees to sell Rueven the watch for sixty thousand dollars. He hands Rueven the watch and Reuven walks away. Shimon yells after him, “Hey, wait a minute. “ Reuven turns around warily. Shimon points to the two suitcases he had been struggling to carry through the station, and says, “Don’t forget the batteries!”</p>
<p>How many times have we wanted something desperately only to find out once we actually got it that it did not bring us the satisfaction we had hoped? I think back to an early lesson I learned as a child about this. I don’t think boys still play with toy soldiers, as I did when I was a boy. Nowadays a child can just turn on a screen and land in the middle of a hyper-realistic, apocalyptic war zone, but when I was a lad one had to rely more on one’s imagination. I remember desperately wanting a set of two hundred revolutionary war toy soldiers advertised on the back of the comic books I was reading. The illustration accompanying the ad, depicting Redcoats and Patriots engaged in fierce battle, made the toy soldiers look so exciting! I imagined setting a hundred Brits up against a hundred Yankees and re-creating the Battles of Lexington and Concord right there on my bedroom floor. I saved up my money, collected my box tops and sent for the soldiers. Each day I eagerly awaited the mailman. Yet, when those toy soldiers actually arrived they were nothing like they looked in the advertisement! They were ¾ of an inch tall and a millimeter wide and no sooner did I stand them up for battle than then they all fell over. What a disappointment. Often, that’s the way it is in life. Those things that are told will bring us joy or change our lives for the good often don’t deliver on their promise. Later on it was the automobile that we just had to have that would make us so popular with the girls, the college that we had to get into that would lead to success, the marriage that would complete us, the dream house that would finally bring us happiness. Then we discover that yes, sometimes these things bring us a measure of satisfaction and sometimes they even make us feel whole. Sometimes, however, they become baggage that weighs us down or traps us because they are not what we hoped for or expected after all.</p>
<p>Like the man in the story who could not enjoy what he had purchased because of the baggage that came with it, we too are unable to fully enjoy the blessings of our lives because of what we bring along with us from the past.</p>
<p>Tomorrow morning we will read the story from the Torah about G-d’s call to Abraham to sacrifice his son, Isaac. It is, of course, not the first time that G-d has called Abraham. Abraham’s story begins with G-d’s words as recorded in the Torah &#8212; &#8220;Leave your land, your birthplace, the home of your parents, to the land that I will show you.&#8221; Did you ever notice that there was something unusual in that call to Abraham?</p>
<p>Usually, the emphasis, when giving directions, is on the DESTINATION! After all, a person already knows where they are &#8211;they need to know where they are going! In G-d’s charge to Abraham, however, it is the opposite! G-d never identifies the destination to Abraham. The emphasis in G-d’s charge to Abraham is not where he is going. The emphasis in G-d’s charge to Abraham is on where he leaving &#8212; his land, his birthplace, the home of his parents. THAT is what is unusual.</p>
<p>According to Chassidic thought, the Torah is telling us that as we journey through life, we must leave some things behind in order to reach our potential. Abraham had to leave his country, his city, and his home in order to fulfill his destiny. In a similar way, in order to become who we were meant to be, to achieve our personal destinies, to live healthy and productive and loving lives, we may need to abandon some of the values and beliefs that we learned in our homes, our communities, and our country. We may need to examine and reassess those social conventions that we have taken for granted. Many of us grew up believing, for example, that men don’t cry, or that women are the “weaker sex”. Many of us grew up being taught that homosexuality was a sickness, or that certain ethnic or racial groups were prone to violence, or laziness, or dishonesty. We were taught what constitutes beauty in a woman, and what is the measure of success in a man, and as adults we strive to live up to what we learned, often causing a lot of pain, alienation and conflict along the way. Some of us were taught to always put the needs of others first, to the extent that one’s own legitimate needs are ignored or denied. We run ourselves ragged taking care of others, while neglecting our own emotional, spiritual and physical health. Sometimes we must identify and let go of what we were taught as to how to think about ourselves and others. Trying to conform to society’s ideas about who we ought to be can prevent us from becoming who we were meant to be. We need to be able to identify patterns that we repeat &#8212; those which bring us back time and time again to familiar but hurtful ways of acting. And we must figure out how we can break those patterns, shed the baggage, that is pulling us back, dragging us down, and making our efforts to recognize and embrace our blessings self-defeating. That’s why the emphasis is on the place where Abraham was leaving. The Torah is teaching us that we need to pay attention to where we come from and what wetake with us, if we are to be successful on our journey to who we want to be, and how we would like to be thought of by others.</p>
<p>There are two kinds of burdens we carry with us through life. There is the baggage we know we are carrying around, but choose to ignore. Perhaps that baggage consists of resentment over a slight we experienced in the past. Perhaps we were treated unfairly in a relationship, and this left scars on us that we carry to this day. Perhaps an employer did not give us the promotion that we felt we deserved, or our partner cheated us in business. Perhaps when you were growing up your rabbi made an unkind or hurtful comment, and made it difficult for you to want to embrace Judaism or feel a part of the Jewish community. Then there is the “hidden baggage” we carry, the baggage we are not as aware of &#8212; a devastating loss that we thought we overcame, a life altering illness that we thought left no scars, a difficult childhood that we thought we outgrew. As parents we want to do right by our children, but we too carry baggage into our marriages and into the families that we create. At times we unknowingly transfer our baggage onto the shoulders of our children who don’t ever realize that they have taken on the baggage of their parents and are carrying it into a new generation.</p>
<p>We carry these loads around for so long that they become a part of us. We don’t even know they are there until we examine our lives, we identify our grievances, we label our resentments, and we name our pain. That is part of the task of Rosh Hashanah, what we call “Chesbon Ha-Nefesh” taking an account of ourselves. Only when we do this are we able to unload the weight we strain under and begin to walk a little lighter.</p>
<p>The man who unloaded his baggage at the train station to a wide-eyed passerby found an easy way to get rid of an unwanted weight that was a burden to him. For us, it is never that easy. Let’s begin by using this holiday season to acknowledge that we all carry baggage around with us. Let us resolve this Rosh Hashanah to at least make a start at shedding our unnecessary burdens from the past. Let’s examine our priorities and stop striving for goals that bring neither fulfillment nor true happiness to us or our loved ones. Let us cast away our stubbornness, our bad habits, and our unwillingness to recognize when we need to change. Let’s dispose of our selfishness and our self- centeredness, and free ourselves to share more of ourselves with others.</p>
<p>May we carry a lighter load with us into the New Year. May we begin our New Year full of hope and confidence, of optimism and of humility, of self-scrutiny and of spiritual renewal.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Racist Violence against Houses of Worship Oh people of conscience, Cry out. Cry out against arrogance. Cry out against hatred and anger. Cry out against violence and oppression. For God requires us to stand In the name of justice and freedom, For God requires us to oppose terror, To muster our power and energy Against [&#8230;]</p>
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<b>Racist Violence<br />
against Houses of Worship</b></div>
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Oh people of<br />
conscience,<br />
Cry out.<br />
Cry out against arrogance.<br />
Cry out against hatred and anger.<br />
Cry out against violence and oppression.<br />
For God requires us to stand<br />
In the name of justice and freedom,<br />
For God requires us to oppose terror,<br />
To muster our power and energy<br />
Against racist&nbsp;aggression<br />
And to protect all houses of prayer.</div>
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Oh God,<br />
We implore You,<br />
Look down upon the suffering<br />
Perpetrated against churches, mosques and synagogues,<br />
Against houses of worship in so many lands,<br />
By the hand of wickedness,<br />
By the hand of malevolence,<br />
By the hand of ignorance and sin.<br />
Today we remember, with sadness, the&nbsp;attacks on<br />
Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church<br />
And the loss of precious life.</div>
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With Your gentle and<br />
loving hand,<br />
God of Shelter,<br />
Unite all of your children<br />
Under Your canopy of hope and love.<br />
Bring the light of salvation and healing<br />
To the four corners of the earth.</div>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Isidor I. Rabi, the Nobel Laureate in Physics was once asked, “Why did you become a scientist, rather than a doctor or lawyer of businessman, like other immigrant kids in your neighborhood? [He responded], “My mother made me a scientist without ever intending it. Every other Jewish mother in Brooklyn would ask her child after [&#8230;]</p>
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Isidor I. Rabi, the Nobel Laureate<br />
in Physics was once asked, “Why did you become a scientist, rather than a<br />
doctor or lawyer of businessman, like other immigrant kids in your<br />
neighborhood? [He responded], “My mother made me a scientist without ever<br />
intending it. Every other Jewish mother in Brooklyn would ask her child after<br />
school, “Nu, did you learn anything today?” But not my mother. “Izzy,” she<br />
would say, “Did you ask a good question today?” That difference – asking good<br />
questions – made me become a scientist.” <a href="file:///C:/Users/Rabbi/Dropbox/Leshem%20Shamayim.docx#_ftn1" name="_ftnref1" title="">[1]</a></div>
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One of the characteristics of<br />
Judaism that is most admired, by Jews and by non-Jews alike, is the openness of<br />
our religion to asking questions. Some other religions have dogmas that must be<br />
accepted and never questioned. Judaism, on the other hand, has a corpus of<br />
literature – the Talmud—whose basis is almost entirely questions. In fact, few<br />
questions are totally out of bounds. In this week’s Torah reading we have one<br />
of them. In exploring this question, we will discover what kind of questions<br />
are good questions and what kind are deserving of …… well, of the earth opening<br />
up beneath you and your being swallowed alive to the netherworld.</div>
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The question deserving of that<br />
particular punishment was asked by one Korach in this week’s Torah portion.<br />
Korach, Moses’ cousin, challenges Moses. “Who made you the leader of the<br />
people,” asks Korach, “are not all of the People of Israel holy, and is not G-d<br />
among all of us?” This question ultimately led to G-d causing the earth to open<br />
and to swallow Korach live. </div>
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The ancient Rabbis divided<br />
questioning – and the disagreements over the answers to questions that<br />
inevitably ensued – into two categories. The first category of questions were<br />
placed in the group of “leshem Shamayim” – that is, questions and disagreements<br />
“for the sake of heaven”. The quintessential example of this kind of<br />
questioning and disagreement were the School of Hillel and the School of<br />
Shammai. These sages, who lived during the Second Temple period, were often at<br />
odds with one another around ritual and theological matters. The other category<br />
of questions and disagreements was “lo leshem shamayim” – those “NOT for the<br />
sake of heaven”. The example <i>par excellence</i><br />
of this – you guessed it – is Korach, our villain in this week’s parasha. <i>&nbsp;</i></div>
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According to Israeli scholar<br />
Avigdor Shinan,<a href="file:///C:/Users/Rabbi/Dropbox/Leshem%20Shamayim.docx#_ftn2" name="_ftnref2" title="">[2]</a> a<br />
question “for the sake of heaven” is one that is posed in order to investigate,<br />
clarify or strengthen the truth. The question posed “for the sake of heaven”<br />
never seeks to denigrate the other. It is asked in dialogue, with utmost<br />
respect for opposing opinions. The Talmud is the model for questions that are<br />
asked “for the sake of heaven”. It contains a variety of opinions in response<br />
to different questions, opinions that are not only different but at times<br />
contradictory.&nbsp; Yet, they are asked and<br />
answered within a context of the belief that all the answers are worthy of<br />
respect, or, as the sages put it, all are “the words of the Living G-d”.</div>
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A question asked “not for the sake<br />
of heaven” is posed in order to create conflict, to increase power, to gain a<br />
victory, or to humiliate the other. &nbsp;The<br />
questioner has no interest in learning anything new, in moderating his or her<br />
position, or of paying any attention to the response of the other. He or she<br />
simply wants to win the argument and impose their world view. For the person<br />
who asks this type of question, power is more important than truth. &nbsp;The questioner who asks “not for the sake of heaven”<br />
has ulterior motives for his questioning, wants to create trouble, he casts<br />
aspersion, seeks to destroy and tear down. &nbsp;</div>
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The spirit of Korach lives on,<br />
writes Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks, former Chief Rabbi of Great Britain,<br />
particularly in the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions movement against Israel,<br />
or, as it is commonly known, the BDS movement. Claims that proponents of the BDS<br />
movement sometimes put forth – that Israel is not the birthplace of the Jewish<br />
people, that there never was a Temple in Jerusalem, that Jewish settlement in<br />
Israel is the equivalent of European colonialism, that Israel is an “Apartheid”<br />
state – rival the claims of Korach and his company. Mark LeVine, a professor of history at the<br />
University of California, Irvine and an outspoken supporter of BDS recently<br />
wrote words that are painful for me to utter and might be painful for you to<br />
hear. He writes, “There is only one criticism of Israel that is relevant: It is<br />
a state grown, funded, and feeding off the destruction of another people. It is<br />
not legitimate. It must be dismantled, the same way that the other racist,<br />
psychopathic states across the region must be dismantled. And everyone who<br />
enables it is morally complicit in its crimes.”<a href="file:///C:/Users/Rabbi/Dropbox/Leshem%20Shamayim.docx#_ftn3" name="_ftnref3" title="">[3]</a> Such an argument not only<br />
fails to give Israel a fair hearing, it paints anyone who disagrees with this<br />
extreme position as morally corrupt. Both Korach and this university professor<br />
engage in demagoguery: a type of rhetoric that stirs up the emotions, fears,<br />
prejudice and ignorance of people and which eschews rational discourse. Leadership<br />
like this incites the passions and short circuits rational thinking. It leads to<br />
the scene described by British scholar Alan Johnson when he rose to speak<br />
against a resolution to boycott Israel that was being debated at an Irish<br />
University. He writes, “Anti-Israel student activists tried to break up the<br />
meeting by banging on the tables, using the Israeli flag as a toilet wipe, and<br />
screaming at me, again and again, ‘[Swear word] off our [swear word] campus you<br />
[swear word] Zionist!’”&nbsp;<a href="file:///C:/Users/Rabbi/Dropbox/Leshem%20Shamayim.docx#_ftn4" name="_ftnref4" title="">[4]</a></div>
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This is the appeal of demagoguery. First it<br />
divides the world into two groups – us and them. Then, it takes a very<br />
complicated situation, about which people are anxious, and presents a simple<br />
solution, which includes the elimination of the other, of “them”.&nbsp; In the case of Korach, the people are anxious<br />
about their survival in the wilderness, and Korach suggests they replace Moses<br />
and Aaron and head back to Egypt. In the case of the Boycott, Divest and<br />
Sanction movement, people are anxious about conflict in the Middle East, and<br />
suggest the elimination of Israel as the solution. </div>
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So asking question, like much in life, can lead<br />
to both positive and negative consequences, depending on the questions one asks<br />
and the motivation of the questioner. Asking questions “for the sake of heaven”<br />
can lead to greater truth and understanding. But asking other kinds of questions<br />
can take us down the path of falsehoods and hatred. May we have the wisdom to<br />
recognize the difference.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="_GoBack"></a></div>
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Shabbat Shalom</div>
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<a href="file:///C:/Users/Rabbi/Dropbox/Leshem%20Shamayim.docx#_ftnref1" name="_ftn1" title="">[1]</a><br />
Letter to the Editor New York Times January, 1988 in <u>A Different Night</u><br />
by Noam Zion and David Dishon</div>
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<a href="file:///C:/Users/Rabbi/Dropbox/Leshem%20Shamayim.docx#_ftnref2" name="_ftn2" title="">[2]</a> <u>Pirke<br />
Avot Perush Yisraeli Chadash</u> by Avigdor Shinan</div>
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<a href="file:///C:/Users/Rabbi/Dropbox/Leshem%20Shamayim.docx#_ftnref3" name="_ftn3" title="">[3]</a><br />
Jewish Review of Books, Spring 2015&nbsp;<br />
“Climate of Opinion” by Alvin H. Rosenfeld</div>
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Do you remember the movie, “Meet<br />
the Parents”?&nbsp; It starred Ben Stiller as<br />
a prospective son-in-law and Robert Dinero as his father-in-law to be,<br />
Jack.&nbsp; Greg, the character played by<br />
Stiller, is a male nurse from Chicago who visits his girlfriend Pam’s home<br />
intending to propose marriage. Once there he finds he has to pass muster with<br />
Jack, an ex-CIA agent who takes an instant dislike to his beloved daughter’s<br />
suitor. Greg tries to impress Jack but everything he does only makes him look<br />
worse.&nbsp; </div>
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The movie plays on the anxieties that<br />
all of us feel when meeting our prospective in-laws. We can all relate. This is<br />
one factor which made the movie such a success. &nbsp;Clearly Jack is every man’s nightmare of a<br />
father-in – law. But what makes a good father in law? Our Torah reading for<br />
this week provides some answers. </div>
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Our Torah portion for this week, &nbsp;Behaalotecha, &nbsp;re-introduces Moses’ father-in-law, Jethro, who<br />
last made an appearance in the book of Exodus. This evening I want to look at<br />
that relationship, as well as two other son-in-law/father-in- law relationships<br />
in the Bible. I hope by studying this, we can gain some guidance on how to be a<br />
good father in law. &nbsp;</div>
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The first the relationship I want<br />
to examine is between Jacob and his father-in-law, Lavan. &nbsp;Lavan deceives Jacob from the very beginning<br />
by substituting his older daughter, Leah, for his younger one, Rachel, on<br />
Jacob’s wedding day. Lavan takes Jacob into business with him, then exploits<br />
his labor. He cheats him, and never allows Jacob to lead an independent life. Finally,<br />
Jacob has had enough. He flees with this wife, his children and all his possessions.<br />
Lavan pursues him, intent on harming Jacob and bringing back what he thinks<br />
Jacob has stolen. But G-d comes to him in a dream warning him not to cause<br />
Jacob any harm. Yet, when Lavan finally catches up to Jacob, he claims, with<br />
stupefying arrogance, that “the daughters are my daughters, the children are my<br />
children, and everything that you see is mine.” Still, mindful of G-d’s word, he<br />
lets Jacob return to the Land of Caanan with his wives, children and<br />
possessions. This is not a model of a relationship with a son-in-law that we<br />
want to emulate. </div>
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The second son-in-law/father-in-law<br />
relationship that I want to discuss is that of Saul and his son-in-law, David. Saul<br />
is the King of Israel, and David a commoner. Yet David becomes a successful<br />
warrior and is wildly popular among the Israelites. Saul becomes intensely<br />
jealous of David’s renown among the people, and wants him dead. To that end, he<br />
arranges a marriage with his daughter, Michal, who has fallen in love with<br />
David. However, David is poor and cannot pay the bride price. Saul sees his<br />
opportunity to be rid of David once and for all. “I desire no other bride price<br />
than the foreskins of 100 Philistines,” he craftily tells David, thinking that<br />
David might be killed in the process of gathering these, and Saul would be rid<br />
of him forever. “No problem,” thinks David when he hears of Michal’s bride price.<br />
David goes out with his men and brings King Saul two hundred Philistine<br />
foreskins! David marries Saul’s daughter, Michal, but David’s relationship with<br />
Saul continues to deteriorate. &nbsp;I am sure<br />
you will agree this also is not a foundation upon which to build a loving<br />
family relationship. </div>
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Here is some rabbinic advice –<br />
Don’t be a father-in-law like Lavan or a father-in-law like Saul. Both men are<br />
jealous and competitive with their sons- in – law. Both men try to control them<br />
and their families. Perhaps it is no coincidence that Rachel and Leah, Lavan’s<br />
daughters, were miserable in their marriage to Jacob. Saul’s daughter, Michal<br />
and her husband, David grew to detest one another as well.</div>
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Fortunately, there is someone to<br />
model ourselves after in the Bible, and that is Moses’ father in law, Jethro. You<br />
recall that Moses is pasturing Jethro’s sheep when G-d appears to him at the<br />
burning bush. Moses returns from the divine encounter and tells his father in<br />
law Jethro that G-d told him he needs to return to Egypt to lead his people out<br />
of slavery. Some other father-in-law might have not-so-gently inquired if Moses<br />
was still taking his medication. Some other father-in-law might tell him that<br />
this is not a good time to leave the family business. Some other father-in-law<br />
might have said, ”You can go, but my daughter and her children must stay.” Upon<br />
hearing that Moses needs to leave, Jethro simply says, “Go in peace”. Moses then<br />
departs for Egypt with his wife Tzippora and their two sons.</div>
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Moses’ wife and children eventually<br />
return to Jethro’s home in Midian and do not participate in the Exodus from<br />
Egypt. We next meet Jethro after the Exodus, bringing Moses’ wife and children<br />
to the Israelite encampment at Mt. Sinai. Despite the danger inherent in the journey<br />
across the wilderness, Jethro apparently feels that it is important that Moses’<br />
sons grow up with a father in the house. He overcomes whatever anxiety or<br />
misgivings he may have about life in the desert and puts his daughter’s<br />
happiness and grandchildren’s wellbeing in the forefront of his concerns. They<br />
might be safer living with Jethro in Midian, but Jethro knows they belong with<br />
Moses and the People of Israel. When he sees Moses suffering under the burden<br />
of leadership, Jethro offers him one piece of advice. He should appoint judges to<br />
help him. That is the only advice that Jethro ever gives his son-in-law, and Moses<br />
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In this week’s Torah portion, Moses<br />
invites his father-in-law to join the community and journey with them to the<br />
Land of Israel. Jethro declines. “I shall not go; only to my land and my family<br />
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So we can derive four lessons on<br />
how to be a good father in law from Jethro’s example. 1) Respect the decisions<br />
of your daughter and her husband.&nbsp; 2)<br />
Always put their welfare before your own. 3) Just give one piece of advice – no<br />
more.&nbsp; If you follow this example you will<br />
always be welcome to visit, as was Jethro. &nbsp;Therein lies the fourth lesson – like Jethro, when<br />
you do visit, remember to leave.</div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2015 20:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>We studied the poetry of YehudaAmichai (above) with scholar Rachel Korazimin her Jaffa home.&#160; It is wonderful to be back following our nearly two week pilgrimage to Israel. Sixteen of us from our congregation, joined by a son and his 84 year old father from the Boston area, traveled the length and breadth of Israel, [&#8230;]</p>
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It is wonderful to be back<br />
following our nearly two week pilgrimage to Israel. Sixteen of us from our<br />
congregation, joined by a son and his 84 year old father from the Boston area,<br />
traveled the length and breadth of Israel, taking in the sites and learning<br />
about the people and the country. We visited the new Rabin Museum in Tel Aviv<br />
and studied the poetry of Yehudah Amichai with scholar Rachel Korazim in her<br />
home in Jaffa. We visited an Arab town that straddled the “green line” and met<br />
with Lydia Aisenberg, an Israeli woman who volunteers for an Educational Foundation called<br />
Givat Haviva to enhance Israeli-Arab dialogue and cooperation. We met with<br />
Rabbi Dubi Hayyum , a Conservative Rabbi in Haifa who studies sacred texts weekly<br />
with an imam. We met Assaf Luxembourg, an entrepreneur in Tel Aviv who does<br />
business with the Chinese.&nbsp; He gave us<br />
insights into Israel as the “start-up nation”. A chance meeting with a soldier<ins cite="mailto:Middy%20Fierro" datetime="2015-05-29T13:23"> </ins>at<br />
a rest stop, a friend of our remarkable tour guide Kayla Ship, gave us an up<br />
close view into what it means to serve in the Israel Defense Forces. &nbsp;Just two Shabbats ago we worshipped together<br />
at the new egalitarian section of the Western Wall. It was a deeply moving<br />
experience. We studied and discussed the story of David and Bathsheba at the<br />
ruins of David’s ancient palace. We explored Masada and we and floated in the<br />
Dead Sea. We learned about wine production in the Negev and the geological<br />
forces that create a natural wonder called a “Machtesh”.&nbsp; We gazed at stars on a cool desert night and<br />
listened for the still small voice that Elijah heard when he fled from King<br />
Ahab. We picked carrots and plucked strawberries on the Salad Trail <a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="_GoBack"></a>as we learned about desert agriculture from Uri Alon, a<br />
former Israeli Navy commander turned high tech farmer. We sampled Israeli beers<br />
on our bus as we traveled to the airport for our departure. We did all of that,<br />
and much more. Even those of us who had visited Israel many times agreed that<br />
we had experienced Israel close up and personal.</div>
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It is invaluable to see Israel up<br />
close, and I hope that many of you here this evening will join us for our next<br />
congregational trip to Israel in 2017. There is also great value, however, in<br />
stepping away and seeing Israel from a more distant vantage point. We were at<br />
services on Shabbat morning in Jerusalem when the rabbi of the congregation<br />
welcomed a group of young people who were visiting with their day school from<br />
Baltimore. Alluding to the recent unrest in their city, he cracked that they<br />
probably felt safer in Israel than they did in at home. &nbsp;Frankly I cringed when I heard that remark. It<br />
struck me as unfortunate for a number of reasons. First, it felt like an insult<br />
to their city of Baltimore. &nbsp;Second, the<br />
visitors were hardly the impoverished black youth who actually did feel<br />
threatened by the police in Baltimore – they were white children of privilege<br />
whose lives were far removed from the concerns of inner city African Americans.<br />
Third, at the very moment that the rabbi made that remark, Israel was in fact<br />
embroiled in its own controversy with treatment of Ethiopian Jews by Israeli<br />
police. I had not realized this was going on there because I was focused on the<br />
excitement of traveling in Israel and learning with my congregation. I only<br />
became aware of the irony of his comment when I returned to the United States,<br />
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&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Just ten days before we arrived in<br />
Israel Tel Aviv police were recorded on a cell phone beating a young Israeli soldier<br />
of Ethiopian descent, by the name of Demas Fekadeh, for no apparent reason. The<br />
release of the video led to demonstrations throughout the country that turned<br />
violent in Tel Aviv as participants pelted police with rocks and bottles and<br />
police responded with tear gas and stun guns. As in Baltimore, the<br />
demonstrators were protesting not only the immediate incident of police<br />
brutality, but the years of discrimination at multiple levels in housing, in education<br />
and in jobs. Lieutenant Colonel Zion Shankur, a decorated member of the Israeli<br />
Defense Forces and a member of the Ethiopian Israeli community, put it this way,<br />
“I know that the moment I take off this uniform, I will no longer be that<br />
successful Lt. Col. Shankur from the IDF, whose name precedes him. I will be<br />
Zion the Ethiopian, who will not be able to easily get into any club in Tel<br />
Aviv……. If I walk around Tel Aviv without my uniform and there is some act of<br />
violence or a murder, I will be the first person police will stop. And that is<br />
only because I am black.”&nbsp;</div>
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Of course, the historical<br />
circumstances that brought Africans to the United States could not be more<br />
different from those that brought Ethiopians to Israel. Africans were brought to<br />
our shores against their will, as slaves. As we know they were oppressed and brutalized<br />
for 250 years before their emancipation following the civil war. They then<br />
endured legalized discrimination under Jim Crow laws for the next century<br />
before finally winning equality in the eyes of the law in the 1960s. As our recent<br />
history in Baltimore, in Queens, in Cleveland, in Ferguson and in Florida has<br />
shown, there is still much work to be done to achieve equal protection under<br />
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Ethiopian Jews understand<br />
themselves as the descendents of an ancient Jewish community dating back to<br />
Biblical times and have been accepted as such by the rabbinate in Israel. They<br />
are ardent Zionists who yearned to come to the Land of Israel and came there<br />
willingly. Although their historical experience has been different from other<br />
Jewish communities in Israel, they share a deep religious bond with her fellow<br />
Jewish citizens. A particularly poignant reminder of this occurred as<br />
demonstrations in Tel Aviv brought traffic to a standstill.&nbsp; A group of white ultra-Orthodox men who<br />
emerged from their vehicles to recite their evening prayers were joined by some<br />
of the Ethiopian protesters to form a minyan. </div>
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Israel is indeed a country of<br />
wonders, of innovation, of contradictions as we experienced on our trip there.<br />
But it is also a country made up of human beings in all of our glory and folly.<br />
The sages had a discussion about the most important verse in the Torah. Rabbi<br />
Akiva said it was “Love Thy Neighbor as Thyself” from Leviticus. Ben Azzai, his<br />
fellow sage, disagreed. He chose a verse from Genesis, “This is the book of the<br />
generations of man; on the day that G-d created man, He made him in the image<br />
of G-d.” May we strive to see that image of G-d in each man and woman’s face,<br />
no matter what the color of their skin. &nbsp;As<br />
Reverend Joseph Lowery, co-founder of the Southern Christian Leadership<br />
Conference along with Martin Luther King said, “We need to turn toward each<br />
other, not on each other.” To that, let us say, AMEN!&nbsp;</div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2015 23:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Not all Parashas, that is, the weekly Torah portions, are equally welcomed by Rabbis – or by congregants!&#160; One could say these are to Parashas that we love to hate.&#160; Bar mitzvah boys and bat mitzvah girls cringe in horror when they find out they need to write a D’var Toah on this week’s Torah [&#8230;]</p>
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<a href="https://www.napershalom.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/gossip1-1024x1013.jpg?x18756" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img decoding="async" border="0" src="https://www.napershalom.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/gossip1-1024x1013.jpg?x18756" height="316" width="320" /></a>Not all Parashas, that is, the<br />
weekly Torah portions, are equally welcomed by Rabbis – or by congregants!&nbsp; One could say these are to Parashas that we<br />
love to hate.&nbsp; Bar mitzvah boys and bat<br />
mitzvah girls cringe in horror when they find out they need to write a D’var<br />
Toah <a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="_GoBack"></a>on <u>this</u> week’s Torah portion, whose subject<br />
matter is skin diseases and emissions of fluids, both natural and pathological,<br />
from various orifices of the body. &nbsp;I<br />
suspect that their parents wish they had been savvy enough to check ahead of<br />
time to find out the subject matter of this week’s Torah reading before scheduling<br />
their child’s big day. For this is the week when this most obtuse of subjects<br />
is read from our holy Torah in synagogues across the world. Believe me, even we<br />
Rabbis struggle to find meaning, to find significance, to come up with interpretations<br />
to teach our congregants. &nbsp;Most of us fall<br />
back on the ancient Midrash that connects the word “Metzora” – the title of<br />
this week’s portion &#8211;with the similarly sounding words “Motzi Shem Rah”. The word<br />
“Metzora” could be translated as leper. &nbsp;The three words, “Motzi Shem Rah” mean<br />
slander. The ancient Rabbis thus reason that Metzora is the punishment for<br />
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Fortunately, both for rabbis, (and<br />
congregants) around the world, there is something else we can give a sermon on this<br />
week.&nbsp; &nbsp;As you know, this past Wednesday marked Yom<br />
HaZikaron, Israel’s Memorial Day. This was followed on Thursday by Yom<br />
Ha-Atzmaut, Israel Independence Day. On Wednesday Israel remembered the 23,320<br />
soldiers, including over 1500 victims of terror who have died since its<br />
founding in 1948.&nbsp; Our JUF representative<br />
in Jerusalem, Mr. Ofer Bavli, describes the solemn occasion with these words: </div>
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“[On Wednesday] morning we will go<br />
to work and in most workplaces and in all official offices there will be<br />
memorial ceremonies. Many will wear white shirts, as is the custom. Thousands<br />
will go to the military cemeteries to stand next to their loved ones, next to<br />
their friends at 11 as a two-minute siren will sound all over Israel. We will<br />
stand next to the grave that bears a name, a birth date, an age at the time of<br />
death. ages will usually be between 18 and 21. Those are the ages of the fallen soldiers. On Mount Herzl, at the military section of the cemetery, there are thousands of graves, in row after row after row. They are all the same. All as uniform as the clothes worn by our fallen soldiers. All identical, but bearing different names. We will be there, and we will see the family of the fallen soldier in the grave to the right and the family of the fallen soldier in the grave to the left. The families that we see every year, as a matter of ritual. The families that get older each year while the tomb of their loved ones remains as fresh as it was so many years ago……….”</div>
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The following day, the national<br />
mood changes from somber to joyous, as Israel celebrates the 67th<br />
anniversary of its founding as a modern state. For me, the founding of the<br />
Jewish State and its continued well being should be at the core of one’s Jewish<br />
identity. &nbsp;I wish every Jewish person in<br />
our country would have as one of their goals in life to visit Israel at least<br />
one time. &nbsp;Yet, in a survey conducted last<br />
year by the Pew Research Center, when Jews were asked what is essential to<br />
being Jewish, 73% of them responded, “Remembering the Holocaust”. Only 43% of<br />
them responded, “Caring about Israel”. This was only 1% higher than those who<br />
responded that “Having a good sense of humor” was an essential part of their<br />
Jewish identity.</div>
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the story collection <u>One&nbsp;</u><br />
<u>Generation Tells Another</u>&nbsp;&#8212;<br />
one of my favorite books.</td>
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Yet, “Caring about Israel” ought to<br />
be an essential element of our Jewish identity, particularly in the times we<br />
live. The American-Jewish teacher and author Peninnah Schram tells of the time<br />
when she had completed graduate school in 1960 and wanted to travel to Europe<br />
for the summer. She wanted to visit Buckingham Palace, the Louvre, the Roman<br />
Coliseum and all of the churches and historic cities of England and France and<br />
Italy. Her father suggested she visit Israel instead. “Peninah,” he said,<br />
“Israel is like your mother. There are mothers who are more fashionably dressed<br />
than your mother. There are mothers who are better educated than your mother.<br />
There are mothers who speak without an accent, like your mother does. But your<br />
mama is your mama. So, too, there are countries that have more beautiful<br />
museums than Israel. There are countries that have older universities than<br />
Israel. There are countries that have much more magnificent architecture and<br />
art than Israel. But Israel is like your mother.” </div>
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“Israel is like your mother”. I think<br />
that is a beautiful sentiment, and one that all Jews should consider when<br />
talking publicly about Israel. That is why I was particularly pained when a<br />
Chicago rabbi that I know and like, in commenting on the recent elections in<br />
Israel, casually opined, on a television news program, that Benjamin Netanyahu<br />
made “racist statements” in trying to get out the vote for his party. But that<br />
was mild compared to the words of Harold Meyerson, an American Jewish journalist,<br />
who, in a column in the Washington Post, compared Neyanyahu to George Wallace<br />
and suggested he and his party might want to open an “Institute for the<br />
Prevention of Dark Skinned People from Voting”.&nbsp;<br />
Joe Klein, the American Jewish columnist for Time Magazine, wrote that<br />
Netanyahu won the elections because he ran as a bigot and that “A great many<br />
Jews have come to regard Arabs as the rest of the world traditionally regarded<br />
Jews.”</div>
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&nbsp;So, it seems, after all, I was<br />
unable to get away from the Torah portion of the week, Metzorah. &nbsp;I remind you that the rabbis said that this<br />
particular skin affliction was punishment for “Motzi Shem Rah” – literally,<br />
“Bringing forth, or drawing out, a bad name”.&nbsp;<br />
In other words – slander.&nbsp; It is<br />
instructive, in this context, to recall the words of Peninah Schram’s father<br />
when she wanted to visit Europe as a young woman – “Israel is like your<br />
mother”. Jewish Law does not attempt to legislate feelings toward ones<br />
mother.&nbsp; It does not instruct us to love<br />
her or to admire her. Rather, it instructs us to treat her with respect.<br />
Similarly we cannot tell Jews that they have to love or admire Israel. Some,<br />
perhaps many, clearly do not. But we could say that a fellow Jew ought to speak<br />
or write about Israel with some modicum of respect and understanding. Respect and<br />
understanding for the sacrifices that have been made to create and to defend<br />
her; respect and understanding for the particular difficulties that she needs<br />
to negotiate, sunrise to sunset, Shabbat to Shabbat, year in and year out.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>As most of you know, I have been active in the Chicago Board of Rabbis since I arrived in the area seven years ago. I have served on the Executive Board for four years, the last two of which have been as Executive Board secretary. Recently I was nominated to serve as VP of the [&#8230;]</p>
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As most of you know, I have been<br />
active in the Chicago Board of Rabbis since I arrived in the area seven years<br />
ago. I have served on the Executive Board for four years, the last two of which<br />
have been as Executive Board secretary. Recently I was nominated to serve as VP<br />
of the Board for the next two years.</div>
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You might wonder, how did I reach such lofty<br />
heights among the constellation of Chicago Rabbis? &nbsp;The simplest answer is that I simply showed<br />
up! I have not missed a single Executive Board meeting and I have attended most<br />
of the programming that our organization puts on for rabbis. I have no doubt<br />
that my fellow rabbis are &nbsp;particularly<br />
impressed that I drive all the way from Naperville to Wilmette for these<br />
meetings. Most of my colleagues, who live on the North Shore, &nbsp;are convinced ,as you might have guessed, that<br />
somehow our beloved Naperville is on the border with Iowa …No wonder&nbsp; they are in awe of my capacity to travel long<br />
distances to our discussions. I also don’t say much and therefore, I like to think,<br />
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To tell you the truth, once in a<br />
while I am not that interested in the subject matter of the programs I<br />
attend.&nbsp; However, how can I impress upon our<br />
own Board of Directors at CBS to show up for services and programs if I, as a<br />
Board member of the Chicago Board of Rabbis, do not set a good example? &nbsp;So, I go, sometimes reluctantly, in part<br />
because I then feel I have the right to lecture our Board members on attending<br />
synagogue functions.</div>
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Such were the nature of my feelings<br />
upon receiving the announcement of the program that I attended this past<br />
Wednesday in Wilmette. Rabbi Joel Mossbacher was scheduled to speak about his<br />
efforts to curb gun violence in this country. I did not have a burning desire<br />
to attend. &nbsp;But I went, and, as usual, I<br />
was glad I did. &nbsp;I learned quite a<br />
bit.&nbsp; This evening I want to tell you a<br />
little about it this event. </div>
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Rabbi Mossbacher grew up in<br />
Glenwood, Illinois. He has been the Rabbi at a congregation in New Jersey since<br />
2001. His father was killed by a handgun in 1999 in the course of a robbery at the<br />
Chicago store he owned. Rabbi Mossbacher became an activist after telling his<br />
eleven year old son how his grandfather died. He spoke the Board of Rabbis in<br />
his role as spokesperson for a national campaign called “<a href="http://donotstandidlyby.org/">Do Not Stand Idly By</a>”<br />
which takes its name from the verse in Leviticus, “Do not stand idly by the<br />
blood of your fellow.”&nbsp; The campaign<br />
seeks to reduce gun violence &#8211;not by passing gun control legislation &#8212; but<br />
through harnessing the forces of the market economy.</div>
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Before launching into his<br />
presentation, Rabbi Mossbacher went around the room and asked us to introduce<br />
ourselves and tell how we personally have been affected by gun violence. Each<br />
rabbi had a story. One rabbi lived next door to a family where there was gun<br />
violence. Another rabbi said that his brother had been held up with a gun and<br />
held hostage for a period of time. He and his brother had very different<br />
reactions to this event. The rabbi himself had been inspired to work for gun<br />
control in his community. His brother said he thought that was foolish, and<br />
bought a gun to protect himself. A rabbi of my generation recalled with<br />
fondness playing with toy guns when he was a child. He reflected on how things<br />
have changed in our society.&nbsp; &nbsp;When my turn came I said that my first thought<br />
to his question – how had I personally been affected by gun violence &#8212; was of the<br />
assassination of President Kennedy. Then came the assassination of Dr. Martin<br />
Luther King and not too long after that the assassination of Bobby Kennedy.<br />
These events touched us all in profound ways and had forever changed the<br />
history of our country, and through that, all of us. I wondered out loud how<br />
many potentially good leaders have been lost because people were afraid to put<br />
their lives on the line by going into politics. </div>
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Rabbi Mossbacher then told us about<br />
“Do Not Stand Idly By”. This campaign does not challenge the rights of Americans<br />
to own and use firearms. Rather, it seeks to convince gun manufacturers to make<br />
guns safer through the use of “smart gun” technology. When a person owns a<br />
“smart gun”, only the actual licensed owner of the gun is able to fire it. Since<br />
many guns used in crimes are stolen, the thinking goes that this would reduce<br />
their use by unauthorized users. &nbsp;It<br />
would also prevent children from accidentally firing a gun they found in the<br />
house. However, gun manufacturers have little interest in developing this type<br />
of gun. The “Do Not Stands Idly By Idly” campaign seeks to get manufacturers to<br />
act through the market power of the public sector. 40% of firearms are bought<br />
by the military and the police in this country. The hope is that public<br />
pressure can be brought upon the military and the police to demand these smart products.<br />
If that large market demands a product, then firearms manufacturers will be<br />
incentivized to provide it. Once it is readily available, the thinking goes, at<br />
a reasonable price, ordinary citizens will choose to buy these safer guns as<br />
well.</div>
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Will this make us safer? It is hard<br />
to say. A comparison could perhaps be drawn between the desire for safer<br />
firearms and a desire for a safer cigarette. E-cigarette sales have soared in<br />
this country, and usage has tripled among teen-agers in the past year alone. &nbsp;E-cigarettes do not have the tar and the<br />
chemicals of regular cigarettes, but do deliver nicotine, one of the most<br />
addictive substances we know.&nbsp; Are<br />
e-cigarettes safer, or do they actually increase overall, long term danger<br />
because more people are using them at younger ages because they are marketed as<br />
safe? Are they leading people to “smoke” who otherwise would never have picked<br />
up a cigarette?&nbsp; In the same way, will<br />
“smart guns” make us safer, or will they simply encourage people who ordinarily<br />
would not buy a gun to do so – thereby increasing the total number of firearms<br />
in our country? </div>
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I really admire Rabbi Mossbacher<br />
for working toward a solution of a problem in our society that he has been personally,<br />
deeply, affected by. Like most of the vexing challenges in our world, like most<br />
of the problems we face in our personal lives, there really is no one answer<br />
that will solve it for us once and for all. The most we could do is meet our<br />
challenges – whether in our society or in our personal lives &#8212; with courage,<br />
conviction and faith. Most important of all, we must not simply stand idly by. We<br />
must not stick our heads in the sand, turn our faces away, or otherwise ignore<br />
a problem just because it appears to be intractable. Our sages teach that we<br />
may not be able to solve a problem in our own lifetimes, but this does not give<br />
us an excuse to ignore it completely. And who knows – perhaps we may, in even a<br />
small way, succeed.</div>
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Shabbat Shalom</div>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Did any of you see Chicago Tonight on WTTW Channel 11 last Tuesday night? He interviewed two Chicago rabbis, Brant Rosen and Andrea London, about the recent elections in Israel. Rabbi Rosen, who recently resigned from his pulpit at the Jewish Reconstructionist Synagogue in Evanston, represented the far left’s opinion on Israel. Rabbi London of [&#8230;]</p>
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Did any of you see Chicago Tonight<br />
on WTTW Channel 11 last Tuesday night? He interviewed two Chicago rabbis, Brant<br />
Rosen and Andrea London, about the recent elections in Israel. Rabbi Rosen, who<br />
recently resigned from his pulpit at the Jewish Reconstructionist Synagogue in<br />
Evanston, represented the far left’s opinion on Israel. Rabbi London of Beth<br />
Emet Free Synagogue in Evanston represented the opinion of the moderate left. The<br />
moderator, Phil Ponce, made it clear, both at the beginning and the end of the<br />
interview that none of the rabbis contacted who represented the opinions of the<br />
center or the right would agree to sit with Rabbi Rosen on any panel. He said<br />
that was “a story in itself”. I thought that was a missed opportunity to<br />
educate people in Chicago about the viewpoints of those who support the<br />
Netanyahu government.</p>
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<td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://chicagotonight.wttw.com/2015/03/24/local-rabbis-israeli-election">Rabbi&#8217;s London and Brant with Phil Ponce on &#8220;Chicago Tonight&#8221; (Click to watch)</a></td>
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Rabbi Rosen is an advocate of a one<br />
state solution – Israelis and Palestinians united in a single state that stretches<br />
from the Mediterranean to the Jordan River Valley. He also supports the<br />
Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions movement, otherwise known as BDS, that seeks<br />
to put pressure on Israel to offer concessions to the Palestinians through the<br />
imposition of economic sanctions. To say the least, t<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="_GoBack"></a>hose<br />
positions have not exactly endeared him to mainstream Jewish leaders. This is<br />
the reason that no Chicago rabbi who represents that mainstream could be found<br />
to share the stage with Rabbi Rosen. &nbsp;Rabbi Rosen concluded his part of the<br />
interview with his contention that although Israel was created to address the<br />
issue of anti-Semitism in Europe, Israeli policies toward Palestinians has in<br />
fact been the <b>cause </b>of anti-Semitism<br />
in Europe in our own time.&nbsp; This last<br />
statement was particularly troubling to me. According to this view, Israel,<br />
conceived by Theodore Herzl as the solution to anti-Semitism in Europe, has<br />
become, in our own day, the cause of anti-Semitism in Europe!</p>
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Rabbi Rosen follows in the<br />
tradition of a long line of thinkers throughout the centuries, both Jewish and<br />
non-Jewish, who held that if only Jews would change their ways, anti-Semitism<br />
would disappear.&nbsp; In other words, it was<br />
Jewish behavior that was responsible for anti-Semitism. In our own day, this is<br />
reframed to blame Israeli policy for anti-Semitism. Rabbi Rosen, and others<br />
like him, do not seem to understand that hatred against Jews, or any minority,<br />
NEEDS NO REASON! Hatred of Jews and other minorities is IRRATIONAL. &nbsp;Hatred toward any group is based on stereotypes,<br />
unfounded fears, and distorted assumptions about that particular group. In his<br />
book, <u>Anti-Judaism: The Western Tradition</u>, University of Chicago<br />
professor David Nirenberg traces the history of anti-Semitism in Western<br />
culture and comes to the depressing conclusion that hatred of Jews and Judaism<br />
is part of the fabric of Western thought. He shows that anti-Semitism doesn’t<br />
even need Jews around to flourish!</p>
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As a member of a group that has<br />
endured thousands of years of hatred I welcomed the invitation to participate<br />
in the Hate Crime Awareness Symposium held at Benedictine College this past Wednesday.<br />
The program had three goals &#8212; to raise&nbsp;awareness&nbsp;about the increasing rate of reported&nbsp;hate&nbsp;crimes, to show<br />
how these hate crimes impact communities, and to promote cooperation and<br />
collaboration between different communities towards solutions.&nbsp;The United States Congress has<br />
defined a hate crime as a&nbsp;“criminal offense against a person or property<br />
motivated in whole or in part by an offender’s bias against a race, religion,<br />
disability, ethnic origin or sexual orientation”.&nbsp; To me, a hate crime is particularly<br />
pernicious because it singles out its victim based on who they are.&nbsp;&nbsp; Hate crimes therefore have many victims in<br />
addition to the victimized individuals or the damaged property.&nbsp;&nbsp; All the members of the community of which<br />
the victim is a member are also affected by the hate crime. &nbsp;A gay man is attacked because he is gay, and<br />
it shakes the entire gay community to the core. Three Muslim students are shot<br />
execution-style because they are a Muslim, and the entire Muslim community<br />
feels unsafe. A man stands outside of a Jewish Community Center and guns down<br />
three people who he thinks are Jewish. These crimes are directed not only<br />
against the individual victims, but against the communities to which these<br />
victims belong. They have a ripple effect that tears at the most basic values<br />
our country, and Western democracies, hold so dear &#8212; that everyone in a<br />
democratic and free society is entitled to the pursuit of life, liberty and<br />
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Raising the awareness of hate crimes in<br />
our communities, understanding what they are, and collaborating to prevent them<br />
from occurring is critical to our collective wellbeing. Coming together to<br />
discuss this problem at a Hate Crime Symposium is one important step in<br />
addressing hate crimes. Educating ourselves, our children, and our friends<br />
about respecting and valuing differences is another significant way of<br />
addressing hatred.&nbsp; The power of getting<br />
to know each other, of sharing a meal, taking a walk, discussing a book or a<br />
film can be instrumental in dissolving our assumptions and prejudices about “the<br />
other” of which we may not even be aware.&nbsp;<br />
At this gathering I also shared how the entire faith community of our<br />
area rose to the challenge of confronting hatred when a hate crime was<br />
perpetrated against Congregation Etz Chaim in Lombard five months ago. Many of<br />
us attended that inspiring rally of solidarity which proclaimed to the<br />
community – we are not alone in standing against hatred. </div>
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This coming week begins the celebration<br />
of the sacred holiday of Passover. We recall those days of slavery in Egypt and<br />
our miraculous ascent to freedom. It is precisely that sense of freedom that<br />
hate crimes take away, both from the individual and from the community. The<br />
most repeated commandment in the Torah is the injunction to be kind to “the<br />
other” – “For you were once strangers in the Land of Egypt”. This Passover<br />
season, may we reaffirm our commitment to fight against the hatred that we, as<br />
Jews, know only too well – that hatred, directed against all minorities, that<br />
takes away from the freedom of all of us. </div>
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